RHOTO'S RAG

It's NOW or Never ??

2012-01-09T15:43:00.001-05:00

Ooooh, that only my dearest of friends see THIS photo ;/

It's at an angle that accentuates my round-ness. (Head-on, I look a bit smaller ;D )

BUT, do you know what?? I have not seen such a happy, smiling look on my face for ages!! Not tired, not frustrated, not tired...

So, I'm pleased with that.

AND have re-continued my treadmill efforts. I NEED to exercise to work off that tiredness and frustration. TOny NEEDS me to do that, too!! 'NOT his fault he's 83-years young/old and his physical limitations, eh... (And HE has been there a "zillion" times during my battle with mental health issues.)

(Caroling at the Royal Victoria Hospital's Oncology Unit.)

We are sweethearts. And we bend ever-more closer to each other <3.RHOnda

A Kids View of the Christmas Story

2011-12-27T11:42:00.000-05:00

van de Ven Christmas FUN !!

2011-12-26T11:53:00.000-05:00

Happy Christmas from RHOTO, Erik and some of the Kids :D

RHOTO

Peace on Earth 2011

2011-12-24T16:57:00.000-05:00

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Vieux Montreal - Old Montreal

2011-11-10T20:06:00.000-05:00

'Just a little "silliness" to distract from seriousness of life... Want to share with you a wee bit of the charm that is "Vieux Montreal", or Old Montreal.

This photo is of a "caleche", or a horse-driven carriage. They are mostly enjoyed by tourists, but are ever-ready for that romantic moment for those of us who call Montreal home...

This is the interior of the Notre Dame Basilica (Our Lady Basilica). It was built in 1829. For those who are French-speaking Catholic and others who enjoy architectural beauty, it is a special place. RHOTO enjoyed Handel's "Messiah" and "Hallelujah Chorus" here at Christmastide.

There are many cafes inside and outside in Vieux Port. Old buildings, full of European flavour and savours. Oftentimes you will see artists outside selling their paintings, drawings of Montreal.

City Hall is quite magnificent. The building was constructed in 1872. Although these dates sound quite "young" in European standards, the Canadian Confederation was only formed in 1867.

Skating at Vieux Montreal. At the Port. Daytime and nightime. So very fresh and fun. Close to the water. A real sense that you are skating with old relations of the past...

View Montreal Port. Where the ships come in and out. Such an important site for the early settlers of Quebec. Still is. Also the docking marina for well-to-do boaters.

Well, there are MANY more scenes to share here at Vieux Montreal. But I hope I have shared a bit of what is special about this part of our City. Perhaps you can come and visit us some day. You are always welcome!!

RHOnda

Big, Beautiful Babies

2011-11-08T00:01:00.000-05:00

16# baby... And to think--TOon weighed 12#s at birth!!

Speaking of big babies!! Elephants are usually 200#s at birth!!

RHOnda who's being silly 'cos she can't sleep ;/

Happy Birthday, Isaac

2011-10-30T09:20:00.000-04:00

Here’s wishing you a wonderful 36th birthday. Know that you are loved—every day, not just on Your day!
Soft hugs & warm greetings,
RHOTO

Peace Garden on Mom/Marina's Earthday

2011-10-25T16:42:00.000-04:00

Today is Mom/Marina's Earthday. And the Peace Garden where she is has been beautified. By her dear grandson, Christopher and by Grampa/Dad.
Christopher decided to make his Eagle Scout project the improvement of this Garden. Lots of time mulching, gardening, building a walkway. Climbing rose bushes will eventually bloom on the arched trellis. Great job, Chris!! <3And Grampa/Dad made a beautiful sign. Integrate welding work. That includes eight (8) yellow roses--one for Mom and each of her siblings and also of her favourite flower. The sign is for everyone to enjoy... They don't need to know how personalized it is for Mom/Marina ;D.Today is Mom/Marina's Earthday. And the Peace Garden where she is has been beautified...RHOnda

Our tree was felled today

2011-10-21T19:40:00.002-04:00

Our tree was felled today.
A beautiful, majestic pine
That touched the sky.
A tree that is the same age
As mine…

It’s only sin was that
It got too close.
To the house.
Too close for the residents
Inside.

Is that not our goal
Our want as humans
To get close to others
To touch
Just as the tree did?

For its sin, it was felled.
A very sad day…
For a tree that was
The same age
As mine…

RHOnda

Platine and Paulus with Ewa

2011-10-12T18:17:00.000-04:00

What's more FUN than having a favourite place to go to? SHARING it with a friend!! Today, Ewa and I (RHOnda) went to Platine, the bestest beauty place in the world. She came in very pretty and walked out beautiful!! The entire staff is made up of warm, friendly, caring and nurturing people. As you'all know, "I adore being a girl". And now Ewa has a favourite place to go to, too ;D

Afterwards we went to Paulus for their famous strawberry crepes. It's almost a game to see HOW long they'll have strawberries "in stock". Yummy!! A great neighbourhood place to eat, chat, share...

Girlfriends are a blessing in our lives, non?

RHOnda

Donald & Norma Toews and Re-nee

2011-10-02T19:26:00.003-04:00

ANOTHER nice surprise visit!! This time from RHOnda's former Minister and wife. After 13 years as missionaries here in Montreal, they returned home to Manitoba. And, since they are visiting, they came to call on us. We sang, shared and were all very happy to be together.

I happened to ask if anyone in the Congregation needs a sewing machine. (The girls and women sew modest dresses. Also children's clothing.) Why, YES!! AND I have FOUR machines, myself. SEW, Re-nee has a new home, along with some Kenmore/Janome accessories. (This woman's machine was an Elna.)

It's FUN to share with others, eh ;D.

RHOnda

One RSVP, Other Surprise Visit

2011-10-02T14:10:00.004-04:00

Onze Erik said he was coming to visit us (from Toronto) in September--and he did!! We laughed, shared, had a wonderful visit with TOon's son. NOW Erik calls RHOnda, "you wacky, cute woman you"... I LIKE it!! ;D

Holdeman Mennonite friends from Manitoba surprised RHOnda (and then TOny, of course!) with a nice, warm visit. It was so nice to see these people again. Everyone enjoyed themselves, sharing and laughing together. They were very kind and loving towards their expelled friend (RHOnda).

RHOnda

Lunch with Ruth

2011-09-25T11:06:00.002-04:00

We don't get together as often as we used to... Which simply means that our lives are fuller now. Ruth and I are both in school.

But we did "do coffee" Friday. Complete with yummy, filling crepes. And then snoop shopping at Canada's "The Bay" department store. We gathered nice, new socks--just like leaf picking. The colours! The textures!!

Off we went to a never explored section of the store. The $350 per item section. Lots of synthetics. Poor, cheap construction. Many items unlined. Polyester linings in others. Is it EVER a different "view" point when you "know" HOW clothing is constructed, SHOULD be constructed. Even saw front facings that were flapping outwards--not tucked/tacked in :O. Anne Klein got the "best marks", but not A+.

We had a grand 'ole time, like usual--Ruth and I. And we will the next time we (get to) meet ;D

RHOnda

"Portrait of Two Women" Diego Rivera

Cute, "Regular" Dryer

2011-09-18T11:15:00.001-04:00

Sooo, Fluffy has arrived!! Cute! Regular-sized. A dwarf beside its big sibling, Sudsy-the-washer. But, don't be fooled. When Fluffy is finished, it lets out one, BIG BOOOOPPP!! ;D

So funny to see the knobs on the top, front side and not on the top front TOP!! It's called "progress", eh.

So happy that the the two (2) siblings are playing together sooo well ;D

RHOnda

Concordia Shuffle 22

2011-09-17T10:29:00.000-04:00

Yesterday was the Concordia Shuffle 22, an annual event to raise $$$ for student scholarships. It's a walk between the two (2) campuses--6.5k. RHOnda had a wonderful time walking with very nice friends whom I have met at the University.

The last wee bit was a bit "too much"... That's not too bad, eh ;D

And afterwards we had a yummy feast. Complete with corn on the cob!! (DON'T tell my orthodontist, eh!!)

Forward, on...

RHOnda

HELP!! I've Fallen and I Can't Get OUT!!

2011-09-12T17:54:00.000-04:00

Well, the day came... Even after kickin' the ole washer two (2) times during each washing cycle, it gave up the ghost.

SO, RHOnda ordered a new one on-line. The "least expensive". 'Cos washing clothes is what washers do, eh. They don't HAVE to be stainless steel red to do their job.

"Sudsy" arrived. Ta-DA!! Complete with an electronic mind :/ that's smarter than us. Lots of humming and weird noises that--according to the manual--are "normal".

AND a drum that could wash all the clothes we own PLUS yours!! I NEVER have big loads. We're two tidy seniors :/. HOW big is the drum, you ask?? Well, to get the last socks out, 'lil Miss 5' tall must stand on one, ballerina-toed leg and s-t-r-e-t-c-h!! ;D

Funny, this new technology stuff, eh... I MISS my ole kickin' machine... :'(

RHOnda

Theology and First Peoples Studies at Concordia

2011-09-10T10:59:00.000-04:00

THEO 236 Spirituality: Personal, Social and Religious Dimensions

"This course focuses on the phenomenon of spirituality as a personal and social response to the human quest for self-integration and self-transcendence. It examines the roles of both religious tradition and secular culture in shaping approaches to the spiritual journey. Consideration of the characteristics of Christian spiritual traditions is complemented by reflection upon the meaning and variety of spiritualities present in the pluralistic postmodern culture."

FPST 212 Inuit Peoples

"This course explores the specific cultures of the Inuit peoples in Canada with a particular emphasis on the Inuit people of Nunavik (Northern Quebec). The course examines social and political structures, gender-defined roles, the Arctic way of life, the Inuit language and its dialects, as well as the spiritual beliefs of the Inuit. This course also examines changing roles and structures influenced by colonization, including the imposition of federal policies."

RHOTO has gone to the 1st class of both of these courses... We're looking forward to getting into the "meat" of same.

RHOTO

NEWest CPAP Mask!!

2011-09-08T23:01:00.000-04:00

It's GREAT!! Doesn't pull on my eyes... (Too bad the 1st one did... I have muscle bags as a souvenir :O!!)

Had to special order a size X-Small. See, I DO (still) wear x-small... If only for my nose and feet ;D. (If I HAD to pass on my 23" waist, I've very glad that our sweet Anne-Marie has it!!)

Time for a good snooze (again!)... School tomorrow, eh!!

RHOnda

FRAN 305: Expression Orale Niveau 3

2011-09-07T16:04:00.000-04:00

Well, I (RHOnda) started a new French class term at Concordia University. Third level, this time. The Prof is very nice, interested... BIG PROBLEM!! She's from either the north or south of France (i.e., NOT Parisian). AND I can't understand 50% of what she says--on account of her charming-but-new accent :O. I continue to STARE into her face, just trying to concentrate and guess at what she's saying. No, the vocabulary isn't too advanced for me... It's the same "problem" when I'm talking with someone with a totally different ENGLISH accent, eh ;D

We spent our time introducing ourselves... One young man from Vancouver shared that he felt pressed to go home as soon as he's done. (Head down, sadness here...) His parents are--old. WELL, I HAD to jump on that one, eh!! "So, how old ARE you parents?" "60." "PHEW!! So, I have a FEW good years left." (Class laughs.)

"Kids" are the greatest, eh!!

Wish me luck/bonne chance!! ;D

RHOnda

Happy Birthday to RHOnda!

2011-09-05T00:55:00.000-04:00

Not SEW "crazy" about the #, but it'll "grow on me" ;D... Grateful for ALL the people in my life. Especially because EVERYONE is a blessing to me 'cos you're "hand picked"!!

RHOnda

Happy Birthday, TOny!!

2011-08-29T08:00:00.002-04:00

Today we celebrate 83 years!! Since the moment you were born, you have been a gift to OTHERS... Happy Birthday, Darling <3 RHOnda

R & R at MMFA

2011-08-26T18:51:00.000-04:00

I, RHOnda, went with my longest-standing Montreal friend (;D) Ruth (R & R) to the Montreal Museum of Fine Arts ("MMFA") this week. We have looked forward ALL summer to attending the Jean Paul Gaultier exhibit together!

VERY interesting to "do" the Exhibit with my Fine Arts friend... Ruth sees soooo much more detail than I do ;D.

Tomorrow I'll do a comparison of the two (2) fashion designers Ruth and I have experienced together... Yves Saint Laurent vs. Jean Paul Gaultier!!

RHOnda

PS The above t-shirt was ~~on sale~~ sold in the Boutique... $300+ yikes!!

17 Band-aids and Chiclets, too!!

2011-08-22T22:06:00.004-04:00

In 2-1/4 hours this morning, I, RHOnda, had many thingys cut off and scraped from my face--including a cyst VERY close to my eye. THAT needle made me cry, even a few moments after it was "all over". THEN I had chiclets put on my top teeth... Clear and nice. Don't hurt at all!!

BUT, I DO look like Dr. Frankenstein's monster. Complete with stitches. Lucky for moi, this will pass ;)

Both the Plastic Surgeon and Orthodontist and their respective staff are people who LOVE their work... Now THAT's a wonderful thing--to really enjoy what you're putting soooo much time into. ;)

I've also lost four (4) pounds. Things are lookin' good, eh!! ;)

<RHOnda

Update Today I have a black eye with my 17 Band-aids and Chiclets!! IF it wouldn't be an insult to something sacred, a burka would work well for going outside...

Spirituality in the City - Multi-Faith Chaplaincy

2011-08-14T10:44:00.013-04:00

Atwater Market

"The Atwater Market has been a part of Montreal since the early 1930's. Often referred to as the biggest garden in town, this place has something for everyone! Awaken your spiritual senses as we explore the sights, sounds, and many tastes of an infamous Montreal market."

So, on our Wedding Anniversary on the 9th of August, RHOTO went with Reverend Ellie Hummel (Chaplain of the Multi-Faith Chaplaincy at Concordia University) on a different sort of spiritual field trip... "Do something NEW every day, eh!!" Before going, RHOTO had thought, "What purpose was there in going to a Market for a Spiritual outing?" Well, we quickly decided that "spiritual" is all around you... Give us "food for thought", eh ;)

We stopped to celebrate our respective, wedding anniversaries over yummy pastries and "un bon cafe". Good conversations, laughter, song--like always <3. And, to boot, Ellie is soooo wise. Such a good--well-trained--listener. Counsel that is very helpful...

Ellie shared her personal definition of "spiritual": "That which gives us life, grounds us, connects us to that beyond ourselves". Then she asked about what we got from the spirituality of the Atwater Market... I (RHOnda) was sooo overwhelmed by the COLOURS, the roundness of the produce (just like ME!). Breathtaking. Wanted to breathe in deeply and hold it. TOny was brought back to his youth... When his Mother would gather two (2) of her boys up and go to Saturday market. Later, they always stopped at Auntie's house and had a cookie! TOny also remarked that the produce at Atwater was beautifully presented--straight, straight. Everything looked "1st class"--no speckled bananas here! 'Looked like a colouring picture.

Here is a photo of the Lachine Canal, which is a right beside the Market. The water is sooo calming. And Ellie said isn't it wonderful that we can have this sort of an environment, including kayaks and bicycling right here in the City? (RHOnda immediately thought of our friend, Ewa ;) TOny remembered the canal in Son, Noord Brabant, The Netherlands--one of the bridges of "one bridge too far" during WWII.

RHOTO agrees that spending time with Ellie for this outing overshadowed all the beautiful produce, coffee and canal experiences. You know--ALL the staff at Multi-Faith Chaplaincy are delightful blessings in our lives <3.

RHOTO

Our 8th Wedding Anniversary!!

2011-08-09T17:43:00.002-04:00

We're even more in love and better suited to each other than ever ♥ ♥

RHOTO

RHOTO received over two dozen anniversary greetings... <3 Thank you all!!

Who's Got Chicklets? RHOnda's Getting Chicklets!

2011-08-08T09:57:00.002-04:00

Went for preliminaries today ;) Get my chicklets in two (2) weeks ;D Think these ceramic ones are soooo cool and cute!!

Can't WAIT!! Feels young and chipper to be getting chicklets!! (For six months only ;)

RHOnda

Little Puttering Things...

2011-08-04T12:18:00.002-04:00

Cambridge dictionary defines puttering as "to move about without hurrying and in a relaxed and pleasant way." Yes, as a retired couple, there's more time to think of Puttering ;) But--hopefully--everyone has moments to dream, to relax...

So, here are RHOnda's current Puttering Projects:

- stuff “R” “H” “O” “T” “O” pillows
- act on or find places for papers
- play with (old) convection oven
- sew beads on RTW t-shirt
- visit Jean Paul Gaultier again with friend
- follow treadmill schedule daily
- catch up on e-mail correspondence

Do you have an ongoing Puttering Project list??

RHOnda

PS We got the "H" "O" "T" pillows done tonight ;D

Josh Groban - You Are Loved [Don't Give Up]

2011-08-03T10:56:00.001-04:00

A Loving and Caring Couple

2011-08-02T08:31:00.000-04:00

Sure, they are "Royals"... But they are also a loving and caring couple. A wonderful example of how-to-be for young and old alike.

Long live loving and caring!!

RHOnda

August 1st "The Walking Site"

2011-08-01T11:24:00.000-04:00

I know... I know... Same ole boring 1st of month hopes and dreams, eh. I'm not doing "perfect", but I'm trying. It's a charged "anniversary" time. The BEST time to exercise, I know... But, I end up in bed all day.

"This, too, shall pass!" Onward and forward hoe...

RHOnda

100-jarig jubileum van de familie van de Ven

2011-07-31T21:27:00.026-04:00

Fifty years ago today--July 31, 1961--was TOon's parents' 50th Wedding anniversary, which was celebrated in Eindhoven, The Netherlands. Their ten (10) children were in attendance. Four (4) of them came over from Canada for this special event. Including TOon of Rhoto's Rag fame (2nd to the left).

Today, on the 100th anniversary of their Grandparents' wedding, the siblings of the original offsprings (the "Cousins") gathered together in The Netherlands to celebrate. Again, several came over from Canada. Including our Erik (2nd from the left, back row).

RHOTO

Happy Sweet 16, Kelly!!

2011-07-30T06:44:00.002-04:00

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Happy 18th, Eagle Scout Chris!!

2011-07-29T10:38:00.002-04:00

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Heat Wave Definition...

2011-07-23T12:17:00.000-04:00

"Heat Wave" as defined by the Weather Woman: Three (3), consecutive days of temperatures over 30 degrees... and that's NOT factoring in the Humidex...

Oh joy in the morning!! Afternoon, evening and night, too!!

'Praying for SNOW!! ;D

RHOTO

Ewa and RHOTO Lunch Together

2011-07-17T13:05:00.001-04:00

Ewa (beautiful Polish name, pronounced "Eva" in English)... RHOnda and Ewa met in French class last fall. Because of that class, we have great fun calling ourselves "Coco" and "Miss Dior", respectively. We just hit it off--instant friends. I've blogged about wonderful, regular breakfast, pedicures/manicures, lunch times together...

WELL, Ewa invited RHOTO to have lunch with her at a wonderful, Italian restaurant...Resto Lombardi (411, Ave. Duluth E., corner St-Denis). The food is superb, the waitstaff really exceptional, professionally, and come with charming personalities. This is where Ewa works--mostly evenings--and especially more so during the University summer break.

We all laughed; ate WELL (even Tiramisu with berry sauce); enjoyed each other. This was the first time TOny was with Ewa for a length of time. He is as charmed by her as I am!

It's WONDERFUL to "find" friends like Ewa... Friends for fun, sharing, laughing, caring, trying new things together. Speaking of, Ewa phone messaged me, "Do you want to play tennis?" I thought she had the wrong number!! :O Who, me?? RHOnda who reads, sews some, sleeps lots??

You're a blessing and a joy in my/our lives, Ewa!! ;D

RHOnda

Suicide Awareness

2011-07-16T21:25:00.001-04:00

Suicide Warning Signs
Canadian Mental Health Association

Suicide is rarely a spur of the moment decision. In the days and hours before people kill themselves, there are usually clues and warning signs.

The strongest and most disturbing signs are verbal – "I can’t go on," "Nothing matters any more" or even "I’m thinking of ending it all." Such remarks should always be taken seriously.

Other common warning signs include:
Becoming depressed or withdrawn
Behaving recklessly
Getting affairs in order and giving away valued possessions
Showing a marked change in behavior, attitudes or appearance
Abusing drugs or alcohol
Suffering a major loss or life change

The following list gives more examples, all of which can be signs that somebody is contemplating suicide. Of course, in most cases these situations do not lead to suicide. But, generally, the more signs a person displays, the higher the risk of suicide.

Situations
Family history of suicide or violence
Sexual or physical abuse
Death of a close friend or family member
Divorce or separation, ending a relationship
Failing academic performance, impending exams, exam results
Job loss, problems at work
Impending legal action
Recent imprisonment or upcoming release

Behaviours
Crying
Fighting
Breaking the law
Impulsiveness
Self-mutilation
Writing about death and suicide
Previous suicidal behaviour
Extremes of behaviour
Changes in behaviour

Physical Changes
Lack of energy
Disturbed sleep patterns – sleeping too much or too little
Loss of appetite
Sudden weight gain or loss
Increase in minor illnesses
Change of sexual interest
Sudden change in appearance
Lack of interest in appearance

Thoughts and Emotions
Thoughts of suicide
Loneliness – lack of support from family and friends
Rejection, feeling marginalized
Deep sadness or guilt
Unable to see beyond a narrow focus
Daydreaming
Anxiety and stress
Helplessness
Loss of self-worth

This fact sheet is available in 16 different languages on the Befrienders Worldwide website at www.befrienders.org.

So that we can educate each other... I (RHOnda) want to add "being depressed and not able to reach out and get a doctor's help".

This Blog is dedicated to close friends...
RHOTO

RHOnda's Back!!

2011-07-13T15:44:00.004-04:00

'Have been for several days!! Haven't blogged 'cos I've been busy!! ;)
Lots of catching up to do... I'm going to make this all one blog. Just read the parts that "interest" you, ok ;)

Heads up, Sewers: there's no sewing, except for starting "R" "H" "O" "T" "O" pillows for our bed...

SANTIAGO visited here while Michael volunteered there (India)
Father Santiago was in Canada for a conference (Toronto). We got to visit here in Montreal ;). He is also a Pastor in India, with 2,000 people attending Mass. (Imagine! India is NOT a Catholic country, eh.) We were very happy to help him with a special project: he's building a playground for the children to have fun while their parent(s) attend Mass. These are very poor children who don't get a "chance" to play...

In the meantime, "our" adopted nephew Michael (with dots missing on his name :( ) was in India, volunteering.

These two sat together at TOny's 80th Birthday party.

ERIK visited overnight.
Such a "sweetheart". Very understanding of my depression/depressive ways. "Made" me laugh, in spite of myself.

RHOTO to the annual Carribean Parade.
Downtown Montreal. "Lively" beat/rhythm. Scantally clad women--a bit "much" (or should I say "NOT much") at times. Well, we came, we saw, we won't be back... We were EXPECTING floats depicting each Carribean country and its culture...

RHOTO to MMFA for Jean Paul Gaultier
We covered about 1/2 of the exhibit. Will go back for the rest. VERY modern, very androgynous... The models talk! JPG talks!!

Interesting in a totally different way than Yves Saint Laurent... This is "fashion art", perhaps-- YSL is Couturier.

RHOnda Volunteers at Senior Non-Credit Office
I feel well enough to wash my hair and join the world. (Couldn't last week.) It's fun to interact with this "Senior" crowd!

RHOnda's carrying a burden...
(I know, Katie, I shouldn't be carrying...) Please remember us.

and last...

RHOnda received a Special Present

A long-ago, dear friend sent me an old, very special photo... A beautiful memory, a warm hope...special to save for myself. Big hug to Debs ;)

That's a brief update... Thanks for stopping by for tea!!

RHOnda

RHOnda's "Get Well" Plan

2011-06-30T10:46:00.000-04:00

THANK YOU for the wonderful, loving support comments. I have the bestest of Friends!!

...Well, I'm back from my wonderful Psychiatrist. Guessed wrong what she would prescribe. SEE, we can't do this alone, eh. AND, she can't "do it alone", either. Wants me to pretend I have a patient (ME!) and follow up on a "Get Well" plan. Seems it's a proven fact that meds will eventually "work" but adding certain daily health changes will accelerate feeling better again.

Sounds GREAT to me!! So... the attached:

So, what "helps" with Depression? To (work towards having) a "normal" way of life.

- Get up and go to bed at the same time--not to sleep 17 hours a day :O( .

- To shower and dress--every day, even if I don't have an outside appointment.

- To eat a healthy breakfast, lunch and dinner (and not 3-5 bowls of comfort cereal a day).

- To sit outside in the sun twice a day/combine with a walk up and down our block. (It's a start, eh, Claire.)

-"One New Thing Per Day"--this one is interesting. Answer the phone with a different response, sleep on the other side of the bed (roll over, Tony ;), stop at the Bakery on the way home from the Doctor. This assignment will be fun!

Well, that's it. I feel soooo much more encouraged. Yes, back (a bit) to meds I'd left behind. But forward in that I can participate in my own "Get Well" Plan.

Now I'm crying again...

RHOnda

Depression is NOT Gonna Win

2011-06-29T18:42:00.011-04:00

Yup, I'm fighting a battle with Depression. Again. Went to my wonderful Psychologist today and couldn't "hide" the symptoms. (Usually I enjoy our session soooo much that I "feel good" during that hourly visit.)

So, I'm off to my equally wonderful Psychiatrist tomorrow morning. Probably for an increased dosage of anti-depressants. Am I "Happy" about that?? I feel awful--I don't NEED to suffer. I dislike weight gain from meds. That makes me feel awful. Which is more important, eh?? ;/

Any suffering "makes better sense" when we can help others... So, I am including the symptoms for Depression in Women. Please seek help for yourself or others. Depression has no more stigma than Diabetes anymore...

Common signs and symptoms of depression

-Feelings of helplessness and hopelessness. A bleak outlook—nothing will ever get better and there’s nothing you can do to improve your situation.

-Loss of interest in daily activities. No interest in former hobbies, pastimes, social activities, or sex. You’ve lost your ability to feel joy and pleasure.

-Appetite or weight changes. Significant weight loss or weight gain—a change of more than 5% of body weight in a month.

-Sleep changes. Either insomnia, especially waking in the early hours of the morning, or oversleeping (also known as hypersomnia).

-Irritability or restlessness. Feeling agitated, restless, or on edge. Your tolerance level is low; everything and everyone gets on your nerves.

-Loss of energy. Feeling fatigued, sluggish, and physically drained. Your whole body may feel heavy, and even small tasks are exhausting or take longer to complete.

-Self-loathing. Strong feelings of worthlessness or guilt. You harshly criticize yourself for perceived faults and mistakes.

-Concentration problems. Trouble focusing, making decisions, or remembering things.

-Unexplained aches and pains. An increase in physical complaints such as headaches, back pain, aching muscles, and stomach pain.

"For some people, depression symptoms are so severe that it's obvious something isn't right. Others people feel generally miserable or unhappy without really knowing why.
Depression affects each person in different ways, so depression symptoms vary from person to person. Inherited traits, age, gender and cultural background all play a role in how depression may affect you." - Mayo Clinic

Love, a tired and hopeful RHOnda

Gefeliciteerd ConnieBJ and MyMike

2011-06-20T09:46:00.000-04:00

Happy Anniversary ConnieBJ and MyMike!! Thirty (30) years of love, best friendship and building a life together and with family!!
And many more!!

XO,
RHOTO

POLI 355 Nationalism: Canadian Experience" Guest II

2011-06-19T19:48:00.007-04:00

Major Sebastien Campagna was invited by our Political Science Professor Hershorn to talk to the class about "Promoting Canadian Values/Nationalism in Afghanistan" and "The Military as an Institution that Promotes Canadian Nationalism".

The Major came with an excellent video tool--prepared by the Canadian Military. From there, the class asked pointed and interesting questions to our Guest.

What did RHOTO come away with from this Guest?

- The Canadian Armed Forces live amongst the Afghanistan people to win their trust and cooperation. Interpreters from within the villages are used to facilitate communication. Living together also--hopefully--helps to identify the enemy.

- The lifestyle of the Afghanistan people has not changed throughout millenniums. They do not have any sense of "tomorrow" or of "planning" in their culture. It's quite a challenge for the Military to (try to) explain these ideas when there is no former exposure to same. (AND, for Military personnel, time and planning are very much a part of THEIR lifestyle. Quite a culture difference/possibly frustrating situation, eh.)

- As an interesting "aside", the Medieval Afghanistan culture DOES include a high volume of CELL PHONE users!! ?

- One tactic used by the Taliban is to "offer" a farmer $20 to plant an explosive in the road in front of his home. If the "offer" is not accepted, the farmer's wife and children are shot. (No words can express our sentiments...)

- Carrying water for long distances is a difficult and time-consuming chore for the Afghanistan women. So, the Canadian Armed Forces built a well in the centre of the village. The next day, it was reported that the well was "smashed up"--by a woman. This chore of carrying water for a long distance gives the women the opportunity to LEAVE the village and to TALK with each other. (Something to think about, eh...)

- Some of the Canadian troops will stay after the fighting mandate is over. Schools are one of on-going projects; also (trying to convince) the Afghanistan men that girls should go to school, too.

- When a Canadian Armed Forces member has finished his/her term in Afghanistan, there is a time period for decompressing and re-orientation to their "new" environment. The soldier is also watched for signs of suicide.

- The Canadian Armed Forces feels that it has a unique way of helping in Afghanistan. We are a multi-national, multi-cultural nation. We have three major groups here: English, French and First Nation who (try to) work together. This "working together" mentality is part of our ingrained culture. That makes being with others who are very different from us "more workable" and successful.

RHOTO wants to express our admiration and appreciation to our Canadian Armed Forces troops in Afghanistan. And also a hardy "thank you" to Professor Hershorn, for providing yet another special learning experience!!

(The Major is 5th from the right on the back row.)

RHOTO

POLI 355 Nationalism: Canadian Experience" Guest

2011-06-10T17:19:00.002-04:00

Grand Chief Michael Delisle of the Kahnawake Mohawk tribe visited our Poli-Sci class. The First Nations are DEFINITELY part of the "nationalism" of Canada. The Grand Chief spoke first, and then the students asked (per our Prof) very good, intelligent questions.

These are some of the points that RHOTO came away with:

"Two Row Wampum Belt
Wampum refers to the tubular beads carved from shells commonly associated with the Iroquoian Nations of Native America. These shells were woven into patterns. They were used as a type of currency and to record significant treaty agreements. One such treaty is recorded in the Two Row Wampum. The arrangement consists of two rows of purple beads on a field of white, which ex-tends for a considerable length. Although simplistic graphically, the meaning inherent in the Two Row Wampum is profound. The white field of beads represents a river. This symbolizes the course of life. The two rows of purple beads represent a passage of two canoes down this same river - the Iroquoian culture on one side and European culture on the other. Although both canoes share the same river, each is allowed to travel separately, independently and at its own speed. Their paths do not cross and hence they do not impede the progress of one another. The spirit of honor and respect contained within this agreement was to be renewed on an annual basis with the English, French and Dutch settlers." - http://www.tworow.com/aboutus.html

Next was a discussion about the "Oka Crisis". A very simplified sketch of this 1990, 2-1/2 month event would be as follows: developers wanted to construct a golf course on what is Mohawk ancient, sacred burial ground. The Tribe responded by a peaceful demonstration of closing down a major bridge into Montreal. The counter response was not so peaceful... It's a peace of history that will outlast us all.

Grand Chief Delisle talked about when the "Indian" children were taken away from their parents, their homes by the white man. There the children were abused. They were beaten whenever they spoke their native language; it took time for them to learn English. The goal, according to Delisle was "to turn them into 'red apples': red on the outside and white on the inside."...

Yes, there are problems with drugs, with alcohol, with very young single mothers. The solution? Developing a sense of "who am I?", of self-image. Everything was very quickly stripped from the First Nation. They don't KNOW "who" they are now.

PART of that backlash is the youth's attitude of "You (whites) OWE me!!" That doesn't "help" solve the problem. That doesn't motivate youngsters to go to school, to develop. That creates decades and generations of welfare recipients.

These are "healing" problems...

What does the Grand Chief think about HOW to address these problems? To have the Canadian Government ACKNOWLEDGE the afore-signed Treaties. To say, "YES", this land DOES belong to the Mohawk People. The goal is NOT to reclaim the land--how do you reclaim MONTREAL??. It is to have it acknowledged that the First Nations WERE and are. To build a sense of pride in their Peoples...

RHOTO is only covering a smidgen of what was talked about. THANK you very much, Professor Hershorn, for extending this invitation to Grand Chief Michael Delisle of the Mohawk nation.

RHOTO

P.S. "First Nation" is a politically correct term that was chosen by the People involved. They are NOT "Indians" of India, as Christopher Columbus erroneously thought.
Tony

"Our" Elsa Graduated!!

2011-06-04T15:45:00.000-04:00

"Études et pratiques littéraires" She DID it!! Never any doubt ;) "Our" Elsa graduation from McGill University with a BA in French. She whose first language is Mandarin Chinese. Who studied at Concordia and McGill in English. (Got that??)

Aunt Rhonda and Uncle Tony are VERY proud of you, Elsa!!

RHOTO

PS Guess who the speaker was at the Graduation ceremony? "Captain Kirk" (William Shatner), who received an Honourary Ph'd from his Alma Mater.

May 2011 Exercise Report

2011-06-01T21:32:00.004-04:00

Didn't get my pedometer re-calibrated (changed battery). Didn't walk much at all. Didn't use my c~~an't think of the name walker thing~~ even once. Didn't watch what I ate. Didn't weigh myself at all.
What DID I do this month?? Guess there were other priorities, eh... ;/
My dear friend "Claire in Montreal" (see side bar for "1 Seam at a Time-Claire" shared LOTS of her well-practiced wisdom with me lately. IF I "were" Claire, I would be at GOAL now ;) :(
Today is another Month... ;)

RHOnda

I Saw Alan!!...

2011-05-21T08:43:00.000-04:00

Have you ever been told that you look like a family member? Yesterday, I "saw" Alan, my late brother, in my face. Clear as can be!! It was a mesmerizing minute. I didn't move. And when I did move my mouth, he was "gone"...

What a wonderful gift for me!! Love 'ya, Alan!!

RHOnda

1-0-0 Patterns

2011-05-16T20:29:00.000-04:00

Pretty dress. ABC bust alterations. Sleeve options. Very nice!!
AND/BUT, my 100th pattern stash... ;-) :(
Where DOES a gal get a "roundtoit" to ~~sew~~ create that many projects??

RHOnda

Happy Wicked Stepmother Day!!

2011-05-09T22:08:00.001-04:00

"Happy Wicked Stepmother Day" (formerly known as "Evil Stepmother Day")

And by WICKED, I mean....

W onderful
I ntelligent
C aring
K ind
E ncouraging
D ear to my heart

ERIK

Erik is a "keeper"... And an extra blessing in my life "just 'cos" I fell in love with his Pap.

RHOnda

Happy 400th Post, RHOTO'S RAG!! ;-D

"Other Mothers" on This Day...

2011-05-08T15:33:00.009-04:00

On Mother's Day, I (RHOnda) remember the "Other Mothers" for whom the Day is--perhaps--a dreaded one...

The woman who always wanted children, but never had any... The woman who suffered miscarriage(s)... The woman who had a stillborn child... The woman whose child died before maturity... The woman with a "challenged child" who finds her road difficult... The woman whose baby was given away... The woman who adopted a baby and who doesn't quite feel "complete"... The woman who had an abortion and who now wishes she had not... The woman who is/was abused by her mother... The woman who never wanted children and hears, "Why not? Are you selfish?" The woman whose partner doesn't want children--in respecting him, she sacrifices her yearning... The woman whose mother died this year... The woman whose mother died in the past... *

To these women, I lift up my prayer. That this Day has something redeemable to offer. That new, nurturing rituals are created. That this Day is finished tomorrow...

Love and soft hugs,
RHOnda

* edited to add: I've thought of more women... The woman who is unpartnered--not by choice--and who doesn't want/chose to be a single mother... The woman of lesbian or bisexual orientation who does not feel accepted as a mother... The woman who is estranged from her child/from her mother...

(Disregarding politics and religious ideologies), we woman have a unique opportunity to love, accept, help and nurture each other... Have I forgotten anyone?
RHOnda

Only Paid a Pittance or Two...

2011-05-06T09:23:00.003-04:00

"The Velveteen Rabbit"... A children's classic that was recommended by RHOnda's Pastoral Services supervisor. "It talks of death, Rhonda". 'Wasn't really impressed with this book. Everything was very believable to RHOTO--who have MANY "stuffed" children, eh!! Except the Fairy... :/

This is an English version of RHOnda's favourite romance/mystery novel. (ONLY post-classic novel I like!). Started reading it to TOny. During our afternoon teatime. I'd like to get a Large Print version as a "keeper" in the Library ;)

ANOTHER Alexandra Stoddard book. ;) "Celebrate your life every day". This is a good "breakfast book". Bits of psycho-babble perhaps, but good thoughts to ponder and discuss along with coffee.

I, RHOnda, am ALWAYS reading several books at a time... Some "new", some repeated re-reads. And you??

RHOnda

April 2011 Exercise Chart

2011-05-03T18:20:00.017-04:00

Well, my pedometer's battery died... Dear Tony replaced it today; only have to "figure out" how to re-program it. I didn't wear my pedometer every day, either--only on days that I thought I'd be "making steps". So, I cheated myself, eh.
And, my weight is exactly the same as in March.
However, WONDERFUL other news: I lost 1" around my middle (waist)!! Tally ho!!

RHOnda

Wedding Bells for William and Catherine

2011-04-29T10:22:00.000-04:00

Concordia Summer Session

2011-04-28T12:17:00.001-04:00

RHOTO is gearing up for Summer school! We will be taking a Political Science course together-- "POLI 355 Nationalism: The Canadian Experience". This class will talk about the origins and development of nationalism and regionalism in Canada. And will compare these Canadian sentiments with those of European countries.

We will have the same smart, warm prof as our last POLI-SCI class--Professor Marvin Hershorn... This is the Prof who brought in Mohawk Chief Warren Lahache (Kahnawake Mohawk Council) and MP Justin Trudeau last class...

Unfortunately, we're having a Federal Election here in Canada the day BEFORE class starts. So, we'll only be able to do "after blab", eh!!

Looking forward!! (We didn't even know Canada HAD nationalism ;/ If it does exist, SVP let’s keep it low-key…)

NOTE: I, Rhonda, was looking for a "Canada" photo for the front of our computer... Saw "Canada day" and thought of daylight... And not "the" Day :/ THAT's how long ago "Canada Day" has been a part of my Canadian experience...

AND, RHOnda will be taking "FRAN 221 Correction phonétique" "Ce cours s'adresse à des étudiantes et des étudiants dont la langue maternelle n'est pas le français et qui souhaitent améliorer leur prononciation. Une approche systématique, qui combine des activités de perception et d'articulation allant des sons isolés à la phrase, leur permettra d'acquérir et de mettre en pratique les règles de la phonétique française (prononciation, liaison, intonation)."

Which in ENGLISH means that this course will try to help me sound more "French" when I (try to) speak the language!! ;) ;/

Yippy!! New pencils! New notebooks!! Sittin' in the front row!!!

RHOTO

Park Picnic and 'Pontaneous Party!!

2011-04-26T16:03:00.000-04:00

RHOTO and Tiger, too!! took advantage of a bee-u-tee-ful, sunny day to go on a Picnic in the Park !!
We packed a lunch in TOny's Concordia University backpack, settled Tiger inside, and off we went...
There were LOTS of people in the park... walking, bike riding, rollerblading. Lots of languages, too.
For lunch, we had leftover, cold Portuguese chicken, leftover olives, leftover cherry tomatoes, and leftover Easter chocolate... all yummier the next day, eaten in the sunshine.
We're gonna have MORE Picnics in the Park!! When the weather dries up... :(

Then, life-time friends John and Anna dropped by--with Easter goodies!! 'Stayed. We laughed, we danced, we had a wonderful 'pontaneous party!! Looking forward to the next time they "just ring" our doorbell!! ;)

RHOTO

Easter Greetings...

2011-04-23T10:14:00.001-04:00

This digital greeting card generated with Smilebox

"Her Father's Eyes"-- Amy Grant

RHOTO

Reading for a Pittance...

2011-04-22T18:29:00.014-04:00

RHOTO has recently discovered a WONDERFUL source of books!! "www.amazon.ca" This Canadian Amazon site (along with its American sister) offers "used books"--starting at $0.01!! Shipping and handling is always $6.49. We're sure you'all knew all about this ages ago... And now we're tickled to be "with it", too!!

Our neighbourhood library is very small, reflects its French clientele, and has old books. It's very good for French classics, but... Now we are very happy to add these nice, new books to our over-bulging bookshelves:

This oldie-but-goldie sewing classic.

E.B. White wrote "Stuart Little" before "Charlotte's Web". Although the latter is a "better-written" book, the adventures of Stuart Little, small mouse extraordinaire, are highly entertaining!!

Another "treasure" is an Alexandra Stoddard book. RHOnda has several of her many books. They are all very uplifting. Ms. Stoddard is definitely a "sanguine" personality--like our own TOny!!

RHOTO has a few more books "in the mail"!! What fun!! RHOnda loves to read aloud and TOny loves to hear out loud. And this maintains a warm ambiance in our daily lives together. It certainly contributes to the "art of living".

RHOTO

Pedi- and Manicures with Ewa

2011-04-18T18:35:00.001-04:00

Ewa (pronounced "EVA", from Poland) and I, RHOnda, met in French class last Fall. We had a grand ole time doing a "Coco Chanel" skit in class! Since then, we have had for pedicures/manicures together--today was our 3rd time. It's a fun, feminine date together. Nice, too, 'cos it "schedules itself" for every month. Oh, yes--we also have crepes with fruit and chocolate chips BEFORE and smoked meat sandwiches AFTER!!!

It's delightful to meet such fun friends!! A wonderful part of our Concordia experience ;)

RHOnda

Go Across the Railroad Tracks...

2011-04-17T12:49:00.000-04:00

"Lock your house, go across the railroad tracks and find someone in need and do something for him."
-Karl Menninger's* advice to a man who said he was going to have a nervous breakdown.

*American psychiatrist(1893-1990)

RHOnda

The Warrior Emperor & China's Terracotta Army

2011-04-03T19:20:00.000-04:00

Montreal Museum of Fine Arts.
Today, RHOTO invited our "adopted niece", Elsa out to celebrate her 23rd birthday. We went to the above-captioned exhibition.
Our first impression: how many different items were there for the viewing. Also how many visitors were at the Museum (probably twice as high as "usual".)
It was a surprise that besides the Terracotta Army, there were numerous other creatures, actually too much to take in at one time. For instance, farm animals, an archery bow, etc.
We were astonished also to see how well this exhibition is organized, and we wonder how all these items got into the Museum. You can't just get a "big truck"!!
It was pointed out by Elsa (who saw these warriors at the place where they were found in China) that some of the artifacts dated from 600 BC to 200 BC. The soldiers and horses are larger than life. They all wore skirts (except the horses, of course!), while the officers had more ornate upper-body garments.
We will certainly visit again. And, in the meanwhile, we will do some research--via our computer--because we want to find everything there is to know about these discoveries!

TOny

"In His Steps" and "What Would Jesus Do?"

2011-04-01T20:04:00.000-04:00

Sharing a very good conversation-making book with TOny... A re-read for me. The original book was written in 1896; the updated version, 1997 by the great-grandson.
In essence, the books ask how would one live if the question, "What would Jesus do?" is thought through/prayed about in each situation. And give examples, in an easy-to-understand, novel way...
These books could also be applied in a non-religious sense--if preferred--looking at the situations as ethic and moral questions to be pondered.
A "GOOD READ".

RHOnda

March Exercise Chart

2011-03-31T23:12:00.002-04:00

Well, I "started", eh... Walking 20 minutes using a program on our Treadmill... Didn't get an "A", though... A NEW month begins tomorrow ;) Which is GOOD, as my Psychiatrist just called, warning me of my cholesterol. "Exercise and eat fish, Rhonda." ... :/

RHOnda

PS The "man on treadmill" is TOny. HE walks outside every day... ;)

"The Peace Garden"

2011-03-26T18:45:00.002-04:00

Where Mom/Marina "is"... What beautiful flowers!! Even in March ;)

RHOnda

"Liberating Losses-When Death Brings Relief"

2011-03-22T17:19:00.004-04:00

"When someone dies, those left behind are expected to grieve. But, as taboo as it is to admit, not every death brings great sadness... We may be relieved a loved one is no longer suffering; at the other end of the spectrum, we may feel relieved to be free of an abusive or troubled relationship. Either way, the cultural expectation for sadness, loneliness, and despair, when you feel relief, happiness, and even joy, only adds to the guilt and conflict felt by many "relieved grievers". - from the inside cover of the above book. Written by Jennifer Elison, EdD and Chris McGonigle PhD

A very "good read". Very helpful, if you or someone you know "fits" into either category of griever.

RHOnda

It's SPRING Up North!!

2011-03-20T11:02:00.003-04:00

It's Spring!! FINALLY!! And "they're" predicting 10-15 cm (4-6 in) of snow tomorrow ;/. * We Northerners don't really "bother" with Calendar changes of the Seasons... They change when they're ready. AND they're not neatly divided into quarters, either... ;/

On another Spring subject... I, RHOnda, went to the Psychiatrist this week. Anxious to hear her proposal of removing me off all medication. (As posted recently, I am NOT bi-polar, as diagnosed 23 years ago. So, I don't need any meds ;) I was hoping for a reduction every month 'til "zippo"!! NOT to be :(. She says it's going to be a l-o-n-g process. Although not needed, my body is very used to this medication. "It's not water", she says. As for me, it's not the meds that "bother" me--it's the side effects. FAT, constipation, acne... :(...

Oh well, "Hope SPRINGS eternal", Alexander Pope

RHOnda

* TODAY'S UPDATE: We got less than 1 cm. (less than 1") of snow, after all ;)

Happy Saint Patty's Day

2011-03-17T18:38:00.001-04:00

I, RHOnda, am 1/2 Irish and 1/2 English--on both sides of my family, eh ;) (We go far back, though, before we reach the Immigrant grandparents.)
In the past, I used to play "Danny Boy" for Dad on the piano. Today, my brother called me 'cos it's a special day to remember our Mom. She had an Irish mother and an English father. It was "cool" to listen to Granny speak with her Irish brogue;)
So, Saint Patrick's Day is a time to remember our roots and where lots of our strength comes from--faithful and persistent Irish family members;). People who have overcome and survived huge obstacles and still retained a real Irish wit :)

RHOnda

What One Thing Can I Do Today That Will Make a Difference?

2011-03-15T18:56:00.003-04:00

That's what I, RHOnda, asked myself today... What's the most important thing I can do for TOny? for myself??
For TONY? Cook supper. He cried... (I thought he would.) It's a normal activity but something I haven't been able to do for a long, long time. I'm usually asleep. A yummy, home cooked meal.
For RHOnda? I worked out on my treadmill. Gave me energy. A sense of accomplishment and achievement.
Good questions. What will their answers be tomorrow?

I add pineapple to the recipe. This is easy to double/triple. Goes into the freezer well. IF not eaten when cooked, remember that rice absorbs LOTS of liquid. You'll need to add tomato juice or V8 juice. A homey meal ;)

First thing in the morning,
she dresses for work, rolls up her sleeves,
eager to get started. – from Proverbs 31 (The Message)

RHOnda

ANOTHER Sewing Boo-Boo :(

2011-03-08T18:56:00.001-05:00

Another Kwik Sew 3806 project... Socks. I (even) found out how to add a non-skid sole ;) BUT, I didn't MARK "toe" and "heel" on the sole. They look a-l-m-o-s-t the same :(.
SEW I have one "correct" slipper sock and one that has a gathered heel :(... I have cut out and MARKED "toe" and "heel" to another sock. ;)
Sew, WHEN will I start making projects without many mistakes?? I ENJOY the process. I do all the steps SLOWLY... :/ ;)

RHOnda

HAPPY DAY!! DSS loves his new slipper socks!! Glad I made an XL 'cos we could cut 'em down to his size ;)

The Simple Woman's Daybook

2011-03-03T14:22:00.000-05:00

OUTSIDE MY WINDOW... it's a gloomy, slushy and sad Winter's day.

I AM THINKING... That I will give this wee diary a chance again. I re-read the 1st seven (7) posts. Sad. Nothing has changed. Forgive me, dear Readers, if I talk again about things that have not changed. I DO hope "to be challenged by writing this Daybook" every week.

I AM THANKFUL FOR... an extra-ordinarily loving husband, TOny, who stays by me and always has faith for me/in me.

FROM THE KITCHEN... "Same home, same menu!" TOny is out with a friend, so we'll have cereal for supper. We DEFINITELY need HELP/inspiration in the nutrition/tasty nutrition department.

I AM WEARING... my (homemade) pj bottoms, a Concordia Walk t-shirt. It's 2:00 PM. :(

I AM ORGANIZING... or maybe it's more thinking--how to "handle" bill payments, on line, without crying 'cos I get nervous. Signed up last month... A month between exercises leaves me starting at "0" again. (On the learning curve, not in our bank book ;)

I AM GOING... to get well.

I AM READING... from our "Cultural Dictionary". I am NOT reading our Concordia course pack. Makes a difference in understanding the class lecture, eh.

I AM HOPING... to get well. News-worthy: I am NOT bi-polar. This diagnosis has been unsure for 14 years. And has been confirmed with the death of my Mother. So, in a few months, I will be taken off--unneeded--medications (22 years!) and finish up--very needed--therapy.

I AM HEARING... welcome silence. In the house, in my mind.

AROUND THE HOUSE... It's a bit unsettled. Reflects the innards of its Mistress, eh.

ONE OF MY FAVORITE THINGS... See photo below. Represents grace, a steady hand. Beauty, fragrance of beauty. Ability to share/communicate with others.

A FEW PLANS FOR THE REST OF THE WEEK: Hopefully, RHOTO will go to the McCord Museum and the Montreal Museum of Fine Arts... stay tuned.

HERE IS A “PICTURE THOUGHT” I AM SHARING…

RHOnda

Our Hostess for the above meme is “The Simple Woman’s Daybook”. Please visit her at the address below:
http://thesimplewoman.blogspot.com/

Cultural Literacy

2011-03-01T17:30:00.002-05:00

RHOTO loves to talk about subjects. To read about subjects. So, I introduced the "A First Dictionary of Cultural Literacy-What Our Children Need to Know" (by 6th grade) (1991) to our breakfast table. It was quickly a big hit. "Let's read more at teatime!" "Let's read more after supper!"
Then I presented "The Dictionary of Cultural Literacy-What Every American Needs to Know" (1988) to the table. (~~RHOTO's just pretending that this book is marketed for Dutch and Canadian readers ;)~~

Lots of the same words and subjects, but a bit more detailed, eh. W-E-L-L, we were off!! "Let's look that word up on Wikipedia, too!" "Let's look up the origin of that word under "etymology"!.
We've covered several subjects so far. NOW, we're "on" "Medicine and Health". Do you have ANY idea how many kinds of bugs there are out there and how many odd body parts we have !! ;)
Oh, it's about time for Reading time chez RHOTO ;)

RHOnda and LeGym

2011-02-28T16:14:00.001-05:00

Went today... a BLAST!! ;) Signed up for three days per week. The other days: 20 minutes on my "Threadmill" at home.

RHOnda

Libya

2011-02-23T16:39:00.000-05:00

The World is watching Libya.
The World IS watching, Libya.

RHOTO

Pleasures - Take Two

2011-02-20T10:11:00.000-05:00

I recently revised my initial "Pleasures" list...

P-L-E-A-S-U-R-E-S
- Crawl into nice, crisp sheets
- Nap, sleep in, sleep early
- Listen to audio books in bed
- Occasional 2-day retreat, alone
- Museum browsing, alone and invite a friend
- Candlelight
- Pedicure, manicure, facial, Platine hair salon
- "Play" in my Sewing Studio
- Putter the clutter away
- Explore and enjoy bookstores
- "Get lost" in Underground Montreal
- Walk 10,000 steps daily & feel proud
- Start Work-Out program at LeGym
- Concordia University course together
- Philosophical conversations with Tony at breakfast and tea time
- French class at Concordia
- Listen to French songs and poetry
- Read fashion & sewing articles/books
- Post Blog articles, write in Word
- Play in Facebook, PatternReview, e-mail
- Doing ANYTHING with Tony!

Do YOU have a "Pleasures" list? ;) Along with your "To Do Today" list? :( PLEASURE is a concept I have "happily caught" living here in Quebec along with wonderful French people. The "other side" is ingrained in my Protestant work ethic...

RHOnda

"It's Now or Never!!??" Take 3? Roll 'Em

2011-02-17T12:44:00.000-05:00

Well, there's bad news and good news...
-First the BAD news... I am currently at a record high weight--AGAIN :(. Therefore, see above photo of the "hefty fish" I'm a-luggin' around every day...
-Now the GOOD news: I (finally) had a "rendez-vous" with my Personal Trainer at LeGym (Concordia University. Besides getting in fit shape :-O, my goal is to lose 25#s. My wish is to reach goal for my ~~55th~~ 57th birthday, September 5th.
I WILL post a monthly update to keep myself accountable to you, my caring friends and family. (I KNOW, it'll be boring news...)
Wish me luck, perservence, patience and good humour as I work my flesh off!!

RHOnda's 1st Official Wadder :(

2011-02-15T15:21:00.002-05:00

SEW, I asked advice about sewing another, matching pj bottom--with poor-quality flannel. AND, I ignored the good advice given. ("Confession is good for the soul".) And started on a replacement pair. Replacement, you say? Yup, I made one (1) pair that was serged front/front and back/back... Makes for an INTERESTING crotch curve :/.
Today, I serged the poor-quality flannel... front/front and back/back :-O. Am I without brains?? Well, I DO have brains enough NOT to bother unraveling all those seams on this pitiful fabric.
I DO know that "before" I used to label my fabric pieces, using masking tape. WHEN did I decide I was "too smart" to continue that?
GUESS WHAT!! I'm going to label everything, going forward... ;)
AND, the pj bottoms are going to the cleaning cupboard, thanks to a good tip from "Plain Catholic in the Mountains"(side bar) that I WILL listen to...
Humble in Montreal,
RHOnda

WE Won!! Kay Y Created, We Voted

2011-02-15T12:30:00.001-05:00

PatternReview.com
Active Wear 2011 Contest
First Prize (by Member Vote):
Kay Y for Storm Mountain Designs: #15 Golden Triangle Cycling Jacket

Congratulations, Kay Y!

RHOnda

Happy Valentine's Day!!

2011-02-14T14:02:00.000-05:00

EVERY day is Valentine's Day for RHOTO!! <3

RHOTO

(Last photo taken together...)

NOT the Guillotine!! :-O

2011-02-10T09:57:00.003-05:00

My Dear TOny... Several times the doors have started to close before a few of us have departed the Metro car at our University station. And we have had a "free ride" to the next stop :/.
WELL, this time the door closed on TOny's shoulders/neck. His head was outside and the rest inside the door. LUCKILY, two strong men on the platform started--and succeeded--to pry the door...and more importantly, TOny!... open and out!!!
HE wasn't at all concerned or worried during this time. I, RHOnda, either ;) I simply wanted a solution!! (Am very happy to say that emergencies do not "shake me".)
Afterwards, I asked the toll attendant, "Would I have had the right to pull the emergency switch?" (There's a large fine if I had "guessed wrong" :(.) "Yes!!", he said. He assured me, also, that the train wouldn't/couldn't have started off to the next stop with TOny's head outside the car...
So, no guillotine... Phew!!

RHOnda

PS TONy asked me to note that the above photo ISN'T of him ;)

I've Done it Before! I'll Do It Again!!

2011-02-05T18:27:00.004-05:00

I, RHOnda, have made S-E-V-E-R-A-L pairs of pj bottoms by now... SEW, I decided I didn't need to look at the directions, just like the BIG girls say on "PatternReview.com" sometimes...
I was zipping away--I mean serging away. REALLY fast!! I was enjoying myself! Impressed with myself!! Until...
I tried to sew the crotch curve--"Hey!! It's not lining up :/ "
Guess what?? I had serged the fronts together and the backs together (5/8" seam/trim)... No WONDER it went so fast. Sew, I cut off the stitching, flipped the parts to front/back and front/back and reserged close to the edge. :) Phewwy!!
EXCEPT, I lost 2" around the tummy area... It lots tighter now... SHOULD a: clipped the serged seam sew that it "fell apart", instead of cutting it off :/ And THEN I wouldn't have lost any seams...
I'm STILL enjoying myself--and STILL making boo-boo's!!
Meanwhile, on with the pj top, a tried and trued pattern done with friend, Margaret!!
I've done it before!! NEXT time, I'll do it right again--right AND left ;)

RHOnda

I DID it! I DID it Again ;)

2011-02-03T11:26:00.000-05:00

THIS is a "new one"!! Yup, I've put my T-shirts on inside out... I've put my T-shirts on backwards... (Sounds like the "Hooky Pooky".)
This time, I put my pants on backwards!! They're soft, jogging pants. I reached to put something in my pocket--they're in the back!!
What silly FUN we have in RHOTO land!!

TOny

"If You Fall, TOny, You Won't Get Hurt"

2011-02-02T22:34:00.001-05:00

OOPS!! A few seconds later, I (RHOnda) tumbled over into the nicest, softest biggest puff of snow!! "See TOny, you won't get hurt!!"
We laughed!!

RHOnda

Egypt this Day

2011-02-01T18:01:00.001-05:00

"If there is democracy in my country, then I can ask for democracy in my own home." - Sahar Ahmad Associated Press

The world is watching Egypt. The world is watching, Egypt.

RHOnda

I DID it!! I DID it Myself, Too!!

2011-01-31T19:17:00.000-05:00

MANY a time, RHOTO has tried to open this container of DVDs... :( In vain. Frustrating. And tonight, while most of my (TOny) attention was elsewhere, I squeezed the package--just like a medicine container--and it OPENED!! I DID it!! I DID it Myself!!
And then I put the top back on... Let's hope that the container opens again the next time ;).
Oh, how packaging can be a frustration/challenge!!

TOny

I DID it!! I DID it Myself!!

2011-01-30T21:25:00.000-05:00

Changed the spool colours on my Serger, that is!! I've tried this several times and ended up with four (4) strings running out :(.
Sew, tonight I tried something DIFFERENT!! I read the instructions :/. AND the instructions say to "lift the presser foot lever"--JUST like I have to do with my sewing machine(s).
Presto!! When I tied off to the existing colours and ran 'er thru... I got 3 of 4. The right needle needed to be re-threaded from scratch... Not difficult, eh.
SEW now I can proceed with my new project w/o calling our nice handyman. Sorry, senor. This $$ I'll pocket for some more sewing stuff.
Guess WHAT?? I DID it!! ;)

RHOnda

1-2-3 Almost Tried aNd Tested!!

2011-01-28T10:59:00.004-05:00

I, RHOnda, want to preserve this review on RHOTO'S RAG (along with PatternReview.) It's my "best effort" in this, my return to sewing (since teenage years)...

Reviewed by: Rhonda in Montreal
Posted on: 1/15/11 1:16 PM
Pattern Rating: Great Wardrobe Builder
Pattern Description: Sleeveless and short-sleeved blouse, also with front ruffle; pants. This is an OOP 1970's pattern.

"Behonda" is not a true copy of RHOnda... In fact, she's smaller :(...

Pattern Sizing:8-18 My basic size was an "18". However, I used size 12 shoulder through size 20-1/2 for bottom of blouse :-O

Did it look like the photo/drawing on the pattern envelope once you were done sewing with it?Yes, although I combined short-sleeves with the ruffle (of COURSE! ;-O )

Were the instructions easy to follow?Yes

What did you particularly like or dislike about the pattern?It's a very good pattern base

Fabric Used:Poplin for two (2) muslins; then Poplin for wearable muslin. Poplin was SEW easy to work with ;) However, DO NOT even attempt/consider making a pattern that requires easing with Poplin!! The two don't mix!! (You'd think I'd have learned with my attempted jacket a few years' ago...) I tried setting in the sleeves 1-2-3-4-5 times :-O. Gave up--for now...

easing with Poplin

Pattern alterations or any design changes you made:
This Review is dedicated to my favourite friend who's name is "Margaret" ;). We made these muslins together--she was the expertise and I the sewer.
1. Found out that my shoulders are "straight" - Teeny, but straight!
2. We did an FBA for a full C-up. Took a bit of trying to get it right. 1-1/2" FBA.
3. We moved the vertical front dart over closer to the center front. It was also shortened a good 1".
4. We added 1" to the bottom of the pattern. AND, with that, the blouse is very short. BUT, it is also a very flattering length. UNLESS I lift my arms :-O.
5. We straightened and added on the back shoulder (straight shoulder and rounded shoulder).
6. We added another size to the side seams.
7. We split the pattern and added a wedge of 2" on the bottom; also took out a pinch on the underarm seam.
8. We moved and shortened the vertical dart on the back, just like the front.
9. We added an inch onto the bottom of the sleeve. So as to hide a bit of "angel's wings" ;-O
10. We rotated the sleeve one dot over at the top of the cap to adjust for a forward back.
11. We eased the back to smaller front shoulder.
12. I cut out the ruffle on the bias and finished it with a matching rolled hem.

Would you sew it again? Would you recommend it to others?Definitely!! I want it to be my TNT blouse pattern 'cos it reflects my style/soul. I'm currently searching for some "perfect" fabric to have a 100% TNT product!! ;)

Conclusion: Luckily, I can wear this pretty blouse with a sweater. Then "the sleeves" don't show ;)

Sorry that it's OOP. I encourage those who haven't to find a pattern that will work with your body, proportions and sense of self.

RHOnda

Dreams and Goals

2011-01-20T10:02:00.000-05:00

That was the title of a seminar I (RHOnda) attended recently at Concordia University. "Dreams and Goals"--knowing the difference. Changing one to the other.

So, so far on the getting in shape dream-- I sewed a pair of gym capris that don't fit "right". I think I can still wear em under an XL T-shirt, though. I found my lock. Found the key to the lock. Got an appointment with my Personal Trainer. Canceled the appointment 'cos of a slight cough. (WEAK excuse...)

Blogged and found a photo (above) of 25 pounds. This is a sweet potato a farmer found in his garden. Pretty B-I-G, quite H-E-A-V-Y!! I'm waddlin' around carryin' that potato all the time!! No WONDER I'm always tired...

Making another appointment with my Personal Trainer. Putting my lock & key in my bag, along with my goofy capris...

Turning a dream into a goal ;)

RHOnda

PR Winter Wear Contest

2011-01-13T10:11:00.003-05:00

How FUN!! Won the "Random Prize" in the PatternReview.com "Winter Wear" contest ;) What does this "MEAN" to me?? On the surface, I have won a $50 Certificate to an on-line scissors company, "KAI Scissors.com". That's very nice! On a spiritual level, it means that I can only "win" in life if I am willing to "participate". And that translates to several dreams and goals I have...

See Right Sidebar for Review. Toon looks so cosy, eh;) I have since cut down the hood by 1/2 size to make it fit closer to his head; the opening at the face is the same for sizes XS-XL.

RHOnda

PS I posted (part of) this article on Facebook and received 27 "Likes" and comments... I have NICE Friends!

RELI 312 - Justice and Social Conflict in a Globalized World

2011-01-06T20:26:00.002-05:00

Yup, it's official... RHOTO is/are Professor Marc Lalonde groupies ;)
Another course with him!! This one covers Exploring Globalization, Religion and Globalization and Islam and Globalization. "How can we comprehend and evaluate the role and meaning of religion in a highly complex, often conflict ridden, globalized world? Does a globalized world augment human freedom, justice and wealth OR does it serve to increase oppression, inequality and poverty?"
Looks like a "winner" course to us!! So, Marc, RHOTO'll be front and centre. Taking notes. Reading assignments and thoroughly enjoying our daily discussions of same. Participating to the fullest of our capabilities!

RHOTO

'Signed Up!!

2011-01-06T18:43:00.002-05:00

Well, I (RHOnda) did it!! Signed up for LeGym at Concordia University!! I now have a Gym card in my pocket... Can tell the difference all ready ;)
Stay tuned... Let's watch that bunny above hop, hop, HOP!!

RHOnda

Happy New Year 2011!!

2010-12-31T13:23:00.000-05:00

Greeting card made with Smilebox

"Give Her a Stash!!"

2010-12-26T10:31:00.001-05:00

THE NORTH POLE, ROUGHLY FIVE AND A HALF HOURS BEFORE MY BIG DAY,,,,

MY DEAREST RHONDA JOYCE,

YOU HAVE BEEN A VERY GOOD GIRL. AND I, SINT NIKOLAAS, AM VERY SATISFIED WITH YOUR 2010. I TALKED TO YOUR HUSBAND, WHO SEEMS TO BE SOMEWHAT CONFUSED, IN CONNECTION TO YOUR CHRISTMAS WISHES. THIS IS UNDERSTANDABE, BECAUSE HE IS ONLY 10 YEARS YOUNGER THAN MY SWEETHEART. AND SHE IS ON THE BALL!!!! WHEN I ASKED HER, WHAT TO BRING FOR RHONDA JOYCE, SHE ANSWERED "GIVE HER A STASH"!!!! STASH, A STASH, HOW MUCH MATERIAL IS THAT? OH NICKY NICKY,, GIVE HER ENOUGH TO DRESS THE WHOLE FAMILY, INCLUDING YOUR REINDEER, DEAR.

AND SO IT WILL BE DONE, AS EVIDENCED BY THIS LETTER OF PROMISE,

GIVEN AND SEALED AT THE NORTH POLE DECEMBER 24, 2010

UNDER THE WATCHFUL EYE OF MRS NICK.

Love, Your TOny

(Cartoon, I couldn't resist!! Click on Santa to activate ;) --RHOnda)

White Christmas Cartoon Song

2010-12-18T13:40:00.000-05:00

Cozy Winter Days...

2010-12-18T13:21:00.002-05:00

Oh, the weather outside is delightful... especially from our kitchen windows!! RHOTO's hibernating quite often these days ;) Reading books aloud, drinking tea, discussing newly discovered ideas.

Today we're going to make paper chains to decorate our wee (artificial) Christmas tree.

Simple, sweet and homemade. Another day, we'll write some Christmas cards to Holland. (To those who haven't joined the e-mail gang yet :-0 .) We have Rocky Road to "cook" for our closest neighbours (don't tell 'em, ok!). And ons Erik just called, asking for our Christmas List. His list is peppered with "chrome"--must be "in style', eh!

I, RHOnda, have been sewing gifts. FUN!! (Will tell you'all later, in case a recipient is a reader...)

We have a Christmas concert on Monday at Grace Dart Hospital. A good portion of the singers are residents, themselves!! How neat is THAT!!

And, I got the best Holiday news of all today--my favourite friend (the ONLY kind I have!) whose name starts with "M" is coming to visit!! ;)

Hoping that YOUR Holiday Season is quiet, peaceful, reflective... and quiet...

RHOTO

Cute Kitten Hugs His Teddy Bear (with Music)

2010-12-07T17:11:00.000-05:00

"Let it Snow, Let it Snow, Let it Snow!!"

2010-12-07T17:07:00.000-05:00

No, this isn't a "real" photo of our neighbourhood. TOny was very anxious to get some good shots today, but our #$% camera was not functioning properly...
But, we wanted to share our enthusiasm for the snow and for the snow that will follow...
"Let it Snow, Let it Snow, Let it Snow" is our favourite song these days... How about YOU? Do you enjoy four (4) seasons where you dwell?

RHOTO

Ten (10) Years Cancer Free

2010-12-04T18:22:00.000-05:00

Ten (10) years ago, I--TOny--had the unpleasant task of telling my (now late) wife about my newly discovered cancer diagnosis. She was, at that time, also in the beginnings of her fight with arteriosclerosis. So, I decided to tell her "the good news"--I had cancer but didn't need to have surgery. I'm not sure if she understood, but she took it in her stride.
Well, after 34 daily "zaps" of radiation--or, I could say treatments with seven (7) staff members Hospital, I was declared in good shape. I had the great fun of delivering seven (7) bouquets of flowers to say, "Thank you!!"
Since then, I've had semi-annual urology check-ups. And, this time my Doctor congratulated me. "Ten (10) years, cancer free!". He said he'll see my in 12 months now. (I hope he stays healthy!)
RHOTO celebrated... With ice cream !!
If your partner HAS regular prostrate check-ups, give him a H-U-G!! If your partner DOES NOT HAVE regular prostrate check-ups, perhaps you can tell him that ALL you want for Christmas is for him to take care of himself--and get a prostate exam.
My cancer was caught when it was a teeny, wee dot. And that's why RHOTO is still here to share about it.
TOny
P.S. Amongst all my emotions during the cancer ordeal, there was one of pride. During the radiation treatment (cobolt), I discovered that the machine being used bore the name of "Phillips", my employer in my native Netherlands.

Ribbons for the Food Fund

2010-11-28T18:46:00.000-05:00

"A little help can sometimes go a long way – especially before the holidays. The Student Emergency and Food Fund, run by the Multi-faith Chaplaincy, can help Concordians in need.

The service exists for students who just can’t make ends meet. For some, the combined cost of tuition, books, supplies and rent can be overwhelming.

Because everyone needs to study, exercise and sleep, some students can’t find enough time for part-time jobs. Other are simply unable to find employment, while some can’t buy groceries to eat or to feed their families.

During the week of December 6, the annual Tie-a-Ribbon-on-the-Tree will see ribbons sold for donations of $1 or more to decorate the holiday tree. Those unable to buy a ribbon are encouraged to give time by spending an hour at the tree selling ribbons."

RHOTO had fun Friday re-fluffing last-year's ribbons. We look forward to our turn at the tree again--we throw in free Christmas caroling. ;)

RHOTO

(Adhaan) Call to prayer by YUSUF ISLAM (Cat Stevens)

2010-11-27T14:24:00.001-05:00

This You-Tube is attached to the following article about RHOTO's visit to the Muslim Prayer Rooms at Concordia University. The music is very haunting... RHOnda enjoyed hearing it--five times a day--for several months in Morocco many years ago... Coming from the mosques in every neighbourhood...

Muslim Prayer Room Visit

2010-11-27T14:23:00.001-05:00

RHOTO attended another Sacred Site visit today at Concordia University. This time, we only had to go to a set of rooms on-site. There, we were greeted by Muslim female students and a male student.
TOny was invited into the Brother Room and I, RHOnda, to the Sister Room.
There, I was instructed in the process of Wudu . "Wudu is the Islamic act of washing parts of the body using water. Muslims are required to be clean in preparation for ritual prayers. The Qur'an says "For Allah loves those who turn to Him constantly and He loves those who keep themselves pure and clean." - Wikipedia
Then we entered into the actual prayer room. There, I put on a covering for my head, hair, shoulders, top of body and to my wrists. Also a skirt covering that went to the floor. Although we non-Muslims did not recite prayers, we did make the body gestures/postures, just to experience how they felt". Twas a sense of meditation and yoga together...
The Muslim women were very warm and friendly. They enjoyed sharing their faith. Afterwards, we visiting females gathered outside the room and asked questions of our hosts. Very interesting. Lots of similarities with Judaism (legalism) and Catholicism (similar to praying the Rosary)...
When we separated, I, TOny, went with the others to the Brothers Room. I was instructed to remove my shoes. I noted how very bare the room was, without decorations or mats. Only small bookcases and a lectern for the Iman. I was also struck by the serenity and the sincerity of the believers present. This was not an official service; it was one of the five calls to prayer during the day--calls to prayer that also exist in Orthodox Judaism and liturgical Christianity. Here, people could come in and come closer to Allah (God in Arabic). Several men were already in familiar praying positions (i.e., feet, knees, elbows, hand and forehead in the floor). Also sitting on the floor, leaving against the wall with a book, studying. I, TOny, was also struck that this manifestation of their devotions is like a type of meditation. I had a feeling of the world totally disappearing. I was in that environment, with myself and God. Here was a place to feel more at ease, more satisfied, to forget one's problems.
I found my shoes back and afterwards we had a group discussion about the Muslim religion. I was particularly interested in music... There are occasions of "chanting" the Qur'an--the Holy Book--. Also there is a call to prayer heard from every mosque five times per day.
There are true believing, practicing Muslims. Just as there are true believing, practicing Christians, etc. And there are thousands of Muslin students at Concordia University. Also, Quebec has opened the immigration gates to countries where French is spoken. Our new neighbours are oftentimes Muslim/Arab. We--RHOTO--want to welcome them warmly. With some understanding of our similarities and differences. In a sense of embracing diversities.
Let the conversational exchanges begin... and continue... May we love one another in the name of Our Creator.

RHOTO

Retreat at Le Chasseur

2010-11-20T18:05:00.001-05:00

I, RHOnda need a l-o-t more quiet time than TOny... So we decided I'd have a trial run and stay at a Bed 'n Breakfast for one (1) night. 'Found one on-line that's located Downtown. Didn't know what I was "in for" but was "game" ;)
What a wonderful place Le Chasseur is!! And the owner is sooo very charming. I snuggled in to a fluffy duvet, four soft pillows and slept like a princess! And, in the morning, there was a buffet breakfast--complete with two (2) types of quiche, homemade croissants, toast, jams, fruit, coffee/tea/soya milk. Yummy!! The most FUN part of breakfast was meeting some of my fellow "roommates"--a group of professionals from Paris and London; a darling family of four (4) from China.
'Told the owner that I "had decided! I was going to live there forever!!" He smiled and said, "Wonderful, but not tonight--we're fully booked ;).
While not at the inn, I had lunch with Ruth, supped with Elsa, perused Fabricville (fabric store) and Indigo (book store), and had a manicure/pedicure. (I also walked 20,000 steps in 24 hours.) I had wanted to take in the Museum of Fine Arts and several never-have-time-streets (St. Denis and St. Hubert), but "the weather outside was frightful" :-O.
So, I'm looking forward to another retreat at Le Chasseur in a few months... In the meantime, TOny did "fine", missed me--but not too much--and had long-stem roses waiting for my return.

RHOnda

Four (4) Sewing Machines and...

2010-11-14T18:24:00.001-05:00

"having fun" trying to get perfect buttonholes :/... Too thick (can't figure out knob to adjust); too yucky (now, THAT's quite technical, eh ;); too fiddly; too inconsistent on the "start line"...

BUT, told TOny--that's why sewing is a craft!! It's not just a matter of "pushing a button", eh... :/

RHOnda

Ever Feel OVER-whelmed??

2010-11-12T18:59:00.000-05:00

Ya? Whatdoyado??

RHOnda